This youtube brotha said it best, “My people don’t listen. They don’t listen. They do not listen until it’s too doggone late or after the damage is already done.
Then you want to talk about ‘Let’s find some solutions’.
What do you need solutions for? I thought you had the solution, you didn’t listen when we tried to tell you. You listened to them and went ahead, caused more problems, more work, more stuff that has to be cleaned up”
The only thing I would add is “Rinse, repeat.”