Just had a very telling exchange which prompted this post. I’m not here to sugarcoat or make you feel good. If you take what I say out of context I will clarify and provide deeper context, if after I do that you still choose to roll with your misinterpretation that’s on you. I will not apologize, I have nothing to apologize for.
If you choose to respond in a passive aggressive manner, that’s on you. If you get mad at me calling out your passive aggression (an insult on top of the injury), that too is on you. If you take all your marbles and run because of pride, ego or you can’t take being called out on your shit, again ON YOU.
I value relationships, but if our relationship is a surface relationship or we’re fairweather friends or it’s one sided or you are rigid in your views and try to push them off on me… or it is contingent upon me putting up with your shit, insecurities, baggage and/or inability to deal with conflict I have no problem letting you do you while I do me. Life is too fucking short.